Abandoned children are those who have experienced a loss or trauma, such as the death of a parent or being separated from their parents through divorce or other legal actions. They may also have experienced emotional abandonment as a result of parental neglect, abuse or lack of affection and attention. These issues can have a negative impact on the children’s life and cause them long-term problems.
The most obvious and serious form of child abandonment occurs when a parent or caretaker completely walks away from their children without contact, or does not participate in the supervision and provision of essential needs like food, shelter, clothing and medical care. These forms of abandonment can also be considered criminal actions under state laws.
In addition to physical abandonment, parents can also be guilty of emotional and psychological child abuse or neglect. This can include verbal abuse or physical abuse as well as failure to meet children’s emotional and mental health needs, which are necessary for a healthy and happy childhood. Examples of emotional and psychological neglect can include ridiculing a child’s feelings, stifling their expressions, relying on children to perform parent duties, blaming a child for the parent’s behavior or decisions and holding a child to unrealistically high standards.
Emotional and psychological neglect leaves a child feeling unsafe in the world and unimportant. As a result, they might struggle to trust people and develop attachments. This can make them fearful of being abandoned in the future and lead to problems with relationships, school and even mental health.
It is important to know that children who have experienced abandonment, or are at risk of being abandoned, will need constant reassurance that they are loved and will not be abandoned again. These children are often more sensitive to criticism, have a hard time expressing their emotions and will not understand the rationale behind certain parental decisions or actions. Often, these children will reject people before they are rejected themselves, and they can have volatile relationships with partners and will go from one partner to another in search of someone who can give them the emotional support that they need.
In many cases, parental abandonment is not a choice but a result of a complicated web of circumstances that the parents are struggling with. Whether it be marital issues, financial stress or an addiction problem, these factors can lead to a break down in the parent-child relationship. When this happens, it can be a very difficult and painful situation for all involved.
While separations, cheating and custody disputes are not ideal for any family, they can sometimes happen and the consequences of this can be devastating for both children and parents alike. In these situations, it is important for parents to be aware that their children can be at risk of being physically or emotionally abandoned and take action. They should always try to uphold their parental rights and responsibilities under state law. Failure to do so can result in child abandonment charges and a possible trial.